BigMal1944

GWM in Maine Looking for Sex/Love

IF YOU ARE HOMOPHOBIC OR UNDER 18 PLEASE LEAVE NOW..... DAILY ACTIVITIES POSTED AT THE BOTTOM last update (03-29-06)....... (Bio updated 05-09-05) >My email is [bigmal1944@hotmail.com] I'm a 60, 390 lbs, 6'2", gay man (Sagittarius) living in Maine, looking for a guy to have sex/fun with. Yup you read it right, I'm fat! But that's the way it is. I've been disabled for over 10 years, and I've really put the weight on. I live by myself in a small apartment, so it gets lonely. It's difficult for me to walk, stand or sit for any length of time, and I don't sleep well do to "Sleep Apnea" and back pain, but somehow I manage. I can sit in my La-Z-Boy quite comfortably, so you'll see me sitting in my recliner a lot. I spend hours on my computer every day, it helps keep me sane. Once in a while you may catch me doing housework [yuck]! You may even catch me "doing" a guy, if he wants to be on cam, but sad to say that doesn't happen very often. I've had four lovers in the past, the longest two were for 6 & 7 years each. The last one ended in 1982. It's strange, I loved them as friends & companions, but I don't think I was ever "in love" with any of them, however I have fallen in love with other men, but none of them ever loved me. Is that some kind of Murphy's Law thing? I love emailing with all my cyber friends. Sorry to all who want to >>>CHAT<<< Sometimes I chat on MSN or Silver Daddies, but not often, I prefer emailing (I answer all). If you contact me and you want my IM IDs just ask. To contact me use my email address at the top/bottom, my "NAME" to the right, (isn't working)... >>>MY REASON FOR A WEBCAM<<< I wanted to meet some new men (in the flesh), and I have using WardZero.com and I have made some very nice "cyber" friends. This is satisfying to a certain extent, but it doesn't replace "touching the flesh". Please don't send emails requesting me to: stand, sit up, show my ass, put the cam nearer my cock, etc., these types of emails turn me off. Remember the reason for the cam was to meet people, please don't give me orders. As I said before I get lonely and depressed a lot, but knowing that people are watching makes me feel like someone is here, so it helps to keep the walls from closing in. I've had hundreds of responses from my cam "sites", so I know there are a lot of sweet men out there. I just wish I could find one living close. When my cam is aimed toward the kitchen (and I'm not visible) it usually means I'm eating. I also run my cam on two other "sites" but you'll have to email me for the URLs, I don't dare put it here for fear of civil unrest with Camarades. I put Camarade's address on one other "site" and they SHUT me off. I guess that was a very naughty thing to do (spank me, please!), but I got that "site" to let me broadcast again, so I'm up and running fine. I can only run my cam on one site at a time, so if you see me on one, I won't be on any other. If my cam goes off-line it may be because I'm burning CDs (PC seems to work better if nothing is running). It may take a few days before I answer your mail, so please be patient. I respond to everyone who contacts me (unless they're nasty). Please rest assured that any pictures you send will only be for my own enjoyment, I do not post any on the net, I only use them for my screen-saver so I can view them full screen, therefore ones taken with a digital cam set to 1280 x 960 or around that setting work best. If you run a cam on Camarades please send me the link (URL) to your cam, I can't afford to pay for Camarades "Elite" membership, so therefore I can't view cams from thumbnails in that section..... >>>WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR IN A MAN<<< I'm mostly attracted to masculine acting/appearing men, and blondes are my favorite. I like that "bad boy" look too. Flamboyant guys turn me off. It doesn't matter whether you're str8, bi, or gay, lets just have some fun. Str8 & bi men are great, they visit, get off, and leave, no problem. One way sex is fine (me doing you), I'll keep my clothes on while you get naked, if that's what you want. I've always loved servicing guys, but sometimes reciprocation is nice, that's why I'm also looking for chubby chasers (CC). I'm not a CC myself, but once in a while large man will turn me on. I'm not necessarily looking for a relationship, but if one happens it will be icing on the cake.... I suppose by now you're saying "what a slut this guy is", you're probably right, but I think there's more to sex then just making babies, otherwise why are we so preoccupied with it (at least I am)? After having a nice encounter with a sexy guy (which doesn't happen often) I always feel good inside, it's like my battery has been recharged. So please contact me if you're interested. If you're at least 18 you can send nude pictures of yourself. Please rest assured (as I said before) I only use them for my own enjoyment. Please don't send pictures from the "Net", I have plenty already.... >>>ABOUT MY GUEST BOOK<<< I have to admit I don't check my Guest Book messages often, but I'm going to try harder in the future (I do answer each entry, eventually). If you attach an email address to your message, please make sure it's usable otherwise I will delete your message from my Guest Book.... >>>CHAT<<< I have a new site I've been chatting on a lot lately, it's called Silver Daddies. >>>OTHER LINKS<<< (http://www.silverdaddies.com/75892)(WardZero.com).... >>>IN CONCLUSION<<< So thanks for reading this boring mess and I hope that somehow I've made your day a little better. Please take a few minutes and let me know you've made a cyber visit. Hope to hear from you. Thanks for all the LOVE, I love you ALL. .........Yours "bigmal".......... There is no Greater Love then a Man laying down his life for our Freedom! May GOD Bless our brave young men & women that are in Iraq.... >>>DAILY ACTIVITIES WILL BE POSTED HERE<<< (03-29-06) I have been spending a lot of time on another cam site, email me for the URL. If you see me sucking please send me a postcard, use the button under my cam and mail to: bigmal1944@hotmail.com to contact me. I love all of you who have emailed me.